'7 Essential Elements of Irresistible Women' by Victoria Knightley

★★★

How Do You Maintain This? 

​I understand what the author is trying to say, but if her points are not your natural inclinations then how would this be of value to you?

​For example:
     Being the life of the party for an introverted wall flower is not even remotely possible.
     Verbal battles may not feel natural and therefore may come off that way.
     Being spontaneous for a planner may rub them the wrong way.

Most importantly, while I agree with many of the points made, my biggest question is HOW. Not how do you turn yourself into one of the women described in this book (especially if you're completely opposite of everything mentioned) rather how can someone possibly maintain being something they are naturally not?

Let's say you work hard to transform yourself into a woman as outlined in this book. You catch the eye of a man that likes that person. Now, in order to keep him you have to keep up the ruse? It's like those men who are someone they're not in order to catch a woman they want. Eventually the real person emerges.

So, again, while the information was interesting, I'm not 100% certain just how it can be beneficial to every woman who reads it.